I know that you would think that this goes without saying; however, in light of recent posts I thought that I would put the word out. In-Laws are not welcome here. Specifically Mother in Laws and Father in Laws unless you have problems with your own in-laws and happen to be one yourself. This is not a forum for MIL and FIL who think that they can "teach" us meanie Daughters in law a lesson, or they feel that they have information for us. We are doing just fine supporting eachother and learning from eachothers situations.

While Im here I will address that if you are an Inlaw of a society member and are here to spy, well you will be banned as soon as I find out your ass is not who you say you are. I hate that shit.


To my society members: I have learned and healed so much from you all and hope you are all doing well. I will try my best to maintain a site we can feel safe at and be proud of. Please PM me with any questions/problems.

xoxoxoxooxoxoxoxo Isa

Thank you Isabella!

Thank you! :-)

Truly a shame when a MIL abuses her second chance. You would think she would have learned the first time around. She's lucky she had a second chance. Thanks for looking out for us Isabella. I certainly missed out on a lot the last couple of days and I am glad that I did otherwise I might have let her have it this time. Just when you think progress is made with MILs, it is always so many steps back! A real shame.

Can't trust 'em man.

We gotta look out for eachother man. Thats what this whole site is about. Guess she thought I wasnt serious about given her the boot.

Thanks so much Isa.

Thank you! I missed what was going on but either way, thanks LOL

Thank You!!!!

I'm not sure about how all this works.  I assume this is a place to rant as well as a place to learn new skills.  I guess I was lucky to have no problems with my mother in law... I am, however, having them with a daughter-in-law and I thought maybe those of you who are tortured might have insight to help me.  The way I look at it is a daughter-in-law is a baby mother-in-law assuming there will be children in the marriage and those children will grow up to marry making MILs of the DILs.  Maybe because I admired my MIL, I'm not prepared for the problems I'm having.  Would you rather I butt out or is this a forum that might help?

Huh - Personally I wouldn't mind you if you came on here and seeked advice. Maybe give us some history on whats going on and we can give you a DILs point of view.

Speaking from my own experience, my MIL and I have had major issues. We are just starting to be able to work through it. FH and I are getting married in 5mo. 3 weeks ago MIL wasn't going to be invited to our wedding. My MIL got along great with her MIL and found a mom she didn't have from her own Mom. Therefore she kinda expected the same from me, she was looking for a type of bond that either isn't going to happen or won't happen as fast. I couldn't live up to those expections.