hi all,
   well i hear the best thing is to move 12000 miles away lol   we did  move about 1000. The emails. omg. I let hubby read every one. I had her email wrong since she changed it  i never knew which one to use so i used old one. I got a forward from his sister his mom said I TOLD YOU SHE WOULDNT LET HIM READ THE EMAILS. (K im about ready to spit bullets.) I explained to her where we sending them and so forth. She denies saying that. He read it too. but she dont recall saying that. The woman can keep meticulous records of each dime she spends. but cant do her own bills? She let insurance lapse, and we had to straighten it out, like we dont have enough stress. I wish i had a life that was simple and everyone else do things for me maybe i wouldnt  have these grey hairs lol.

Don't deal with them via email, problem solved. Don't fix her life for her, thats stress your brining on yourself

Oh definitely keep dealing with them via email!!! Its such a nice break from intrusive phone calls! Its much better to deal with email because you read and reply on your terms, when you are prepared and its hard to get in "Sniper shots" in them (since even when the missal is launched, they aren't there to see if it landed). Plus, you can print out each and everyone, and if they say "I never said that" you just forward or snail mail a copy back to them. *grins*

However I agree with missdish- why are you straightening her bills out if it stresses you? I would cut that out ASAP.

It could be worse. At least she doesn't live 5 miles away, and just pop up outta nowhere,at like 10 at night, like when you are trying to have "hubby and wifey time".. But I do agree, stop helping her with her insurance junk, she's a grown woman!!!Good Luck!!

Mil's don't remember ever telling lies, insulting you, or yelling.  So even if you had her on tape, she still wouldn't remember.  It just goes to show you that she lies so much she can't remember them all, and that the opens her mouth and really doesn't care what comes out.  If she cared she wouldn't have been caught.  She was caught by you.  You have your proof, vindication of sorts.  So ignore her.  Hopefully she'll go away or grow up.