Ok, first off........how'd you get him to go to therapy??  I know if I mentioned this my husband would FLIP OUT!  He thinks there is nothing wrong with his relationship with his mommy.  I'm starting to feel like I need the therapy!  I can totally relate to the running to mom everytime something happens.  My husband talks to his mother and his sister at least 5-8 time DAILY.  I think honestly they call each other when the mail comes............[/size][/font]

Well, since your hubby sounds like he is willing to see a therapist, that's a good sign.  Since his mother helped create the situation, I think she should consider going as well - make it a family event a couple of times. The therapist can then speak to all of you at the same time and explain how to best help your hubby deal with his issues.

I do have to say when I have talked to my parents; they do say... We'll listen but we won't comment because this is something you need to decide on yourself with dh; they agree to listen and be there but do not offer their opinions UNLESS they are either half joking or I am begging for advise (my dad had IL's like mine)