Its done and dusted. we had such an awesome time and things mostly went well. i look back with many happy memories.
sil and bil gf tried to screw up things in pictures and got extreamly upset that we didnt supply them with there own bottle of malibu when we bought out bundy and vodka later in the night. it made me laugh even more that they thought we would go out of our way to buy them something for being arseholes.
all in all i surprised myself with my ability to pretend to be nice...my sister was stirring shit left right and centre with the in laws- and when it came to the bridal waltz bil dissapeared.
this morning i had bil and gf come over and say now your aunty * - refering to bil gfs child. they made it clear that i wasnt part of the family but they are- even tho the gf has only been with bil for 6 months.
thats life, hopefully i dont have to come on here much now- we will go on our honeymoon and try and keep to ourselves.

I'm glad your wedding went well and there were no major disasters! Congrats!