iaiai Iam new here and hunney I have the worst MIL. She has brainwashed my 6yr into acting like her and being miss know it all and miss i know iam spoiled by gma and papa. She treats my other two dds different. She brain washes my hubby
I have told her off too many times! Shes like the oldest dd is sooooooooo close to me ..... I need a friend to talk to this lady is nuts and no wonder dh ex wifey left him. He wont even move thirty or hour from his stupid mother, and the hound constantly mooches off of us
and complains how i suck as a mom behind my freakin back. I think iam a good mom. She thinks i dont treat my kids fairly this lady is soooooooooooo hyprocitical.
what a mole, u really need to get that man of u to see how u feel and what it does to u. united front is always good.
i cant move cos of my parents- but if they didnt live where i do, i woud be hours away from MIL,
I will never, ever, ever, ever live anywhere near my evil, conniving, manipulative, egotistical, hypocritical, self absorbed inlaws. My FH is dreaming if he thinks it will ever happen. He can move closer to them all he wants...I'll wait for the postcards and the checks to come in the mail, because my sanity is more important than the chaos that those mo fo's bring into the equation. Having said that....stay strong, girl. Keep a healthy distance, and remember...when it comes to your daughter, you are still the mom. It is ok to tell children what is appropriate behavior and what is not, no matter what gma and papa say!
p.s I don't hate my inlaws, but let's just say the dislike factor is on maximum.
i cant wait to move across country.
OMG, the biggest mistake I made when we bought our house was that I didn't insist we move further away from MIL. Even an hour away would've been great.
My MIL made sure we HAD to use an RE agent of HER choosing and we unknowingly let this friend RE agent of MIL's cow us into buying a house that's 15 minutes away from her. We should've moved to the other end of the city -- she wouldn't want to drive through downtown traffic (she never wants to leave the neighborhood) to visit.
Hindsight's always 20/20, ain't it?
Hang in there! We moved over 30 min from my Inlaws and I think they visit MORE than when we lived just a few minutes away....
but think; if you lived hours or cross country; when they visited the would be around for DAYS at a time! OMG I would fall out!
i think 2 hours or maybe 3 would suffice; long enough for less visits but close enough not to stay overnight :o)
You're the mom; put your foot down and take charge..... don't let MIL take charge of dd.....