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it all went perfect and all the crap that may have happened i'm gonna pretend didnt.
suppobly bil bitch to my best mate cos we didnt buy malibu for his gf to drink. this made me laugh cs why would we. so they didnt drink hahahah.
the were several comments on sils death stares and sour looks, i ignored them. and her congratulations were as genuine as a crim.
the photo's were funny cos none of em wanted to stand next to me- so its a shit pic but i dont want to print it so dont care.

we had a great night, thats all thats important.

went to visit mil yesterday- found the pic of the other couples are on this glass shelf and our pic in behind a xmas dec. really nice.

12-18-2007 04:42 PM
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RE: our wedding

I happy for you that everything went well. Congrats!

I had a dream last night about our wedding and it wasn't going well. People brought univited guests and wanted food at all different times.

Now that we are going to be talking to MIL to see if we can fix things, she might be at the wedding - thats a whole other range of emotions.

Good that you had a great night! Enjoy being newlyweds!

12-19-2007 09:09 AM
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yeah, i guess its a risk we had to take. my ils sat outside most of the night- only fil got up to dance- but they were all just trying to be fake.
the biggest thing i had to realise is that i couldnt control everything. i couldnt control ppls emotions, i coulndt control the weather, nothing.
it worked well cos when things went hay wire i made a joke and laughed about it.
my nieces0 flower gals- were wlkaing from one side of the church to the other- but they were quiet.
at picture time- everyone dissapeared- my bil went and sils bf and bilgf wouldnt come into the pics- so i dont know why they bought there kids at all....it was such a big fuss and they wouldnt come--so a nother funny thing to laugh about...
dh says he would love to have it over again, but screw that for a joke- it was such an amazing day and i was well protected from hearing things going wrong...but i would never do it again.
im now just touchy- lotsa ppl come to s and say that was an awesome day- i just dont like hearing the bad comments.
but we're married and no one can change that.

12-20-2007 05:20 PM
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wow

I feel so bad

I thought I had a sad story but you're still a newlywed but you have a great outlook on things. I mean of course it's maddening, but you are so strong about all of this.

03-06-2008 09:10 AM
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i think i have to get use to living around bipolar people.
they still are.
we are still the outsiders cos hubby isnt sil's favoutire brother and its all about sil.
but thats life. and hubby wants some link to them, so we just make slight contact work.
atm sil is in hospital and we have been there for them and assume they would do it for us. lol.
but they're family and u get the good and the bad. and i guess also i dont wanna be the one to regret holding a grduge if something happened to someone. lifes short and i think live it with the people you want to, but live it happy without grudges.
but when things are right, it always goes wrong.

03-11-2008 04:37 PM
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